It's Complicated
A romantic tangle that mostly works despite its messiness
It's Complicated is a romantic film that takes its premise seriously and lets grown adults behave like complicated people. Meryl Streep anchors it with restraint. The script doesn't always earn its moments, but when it does, you feel it. Worth watching if you appreciate comedy that doesn't mock its characters.
- Director
- Nancy Meyers
- Genre
- Comedy, Romance
- Runtime
- 121 min
- Country
- US
- Min. Age
- 16+
- Year
- 2009
- Type
- Movie
Main Cast
Harry's Movie Review
It's Complicated asks what happens when a divorced couple reconnect after ten years, and whether second chances can look like something other than what we expect. The premise is solid. Meryl Streep's Jane is a woman who thought she had moved on, built a new life, started a romance with her architect. Then her ex-husband Jake shows up at their son's college graduation and complicates everything. The film knows this is messy. It doesn't apologize for that.
Streep does something quiet here. She doesn't perform the confusion or the longing. You watch it happen in her face, in the way she hesitates before saying yes to a drink, in how her body language changes when Jake enters a room. Alec Baldwin matches her energy instead of overplaying, which matters. Steve Martin as the architect could have been a prop, but he brings something genuine to a man who deserves better than he gets. The ensemble respects each other's space on screen, and that creates room for real comedy to breathe.
Nancy Meyers directs this with a light touch, letting scenes sit without forcing laughs. The pacing runs two hours, which occasionally feels long when the script reaches for sentiment instead of finding it. There's a scene or two that wobbles when it should land. But Meyers understands that this is a story about people figuring things out in real time, not a story with predetermined answers, and that approach carries you through the softer moments.
I kept thinking about how the film refuses to make Jane choose quickly or dramatically. She sits with her confusion. She makes mistakes. She doesn't have a speech where everything becomes clear. By the end, what stayed with me was not some big romantic resolution but the smaller realization that sometimes you need to live through the complications to understand what you actually want.
Key Facts
- Director
- Nancy Meyers
- Genre
- Comedy, Romance
- Year
- 2009
- Runtime
- 121 min
- Country
- US
- Content Rating
- R (16+)
- Harry's Rating
- 7 / 10
- Main Cast
- Meryl Streep, Alec Baldwin, Steve Martin, John Krasinski, Caitlin FitzGerald, Hunter Parrish, Zoe Kazan
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Trivia & Fun Facts
- Nancy Meyers directed and wrote the film, marking another example of her control over romantic comedies aimed at adult audiences during this period
- The film was shot in various locations including New York City and other settings that reflect the characters' affluent lifestyle
- The cast includes John Krasinski in a supporting role, several years before he became widely known for television work
Frequently Asked Questions
Yes, if you like romantic comedies that treat their characters as real people navigating genuine conflict. Streep delivers a performance that doesn't announce itself, and the film gives you space to think instead of telling you what to feel. It stumbles occasionally, but it earns most of its moments.
Ten years after their divorce, Jane and Jake reconnect at their son's college graduation and end up sleeping together. The problem is Jake is still married, and Jane is starting something new with her architect. The film follows Jane as she sorts through what she actually wants while managing everyone else's expectations.
Meryl Streep plays Jane, Alec Baldwin plays her ex-husband Jake, and Steve Martin plays her architect love interest. The cast also includes John Krasinski, Caitlin FitzGerald, Hunter Parrish, and Zoe Kazan in supporting roles.
No. This is an original screenplay written by Nancy Meyers, the director, specifically created as a fictional romantic comedy.
The film is available on various streaming platforms, though availability varies by region. It is also available on physical media and through digital rental or purchase on most major VOD services.
The film runs 121 minutes, which is 2 hours and 1 minute.
Harry's Final Thoughts
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It's Complicated is a romantic film that takes its messiness seriously. Streep carries it with a performance that trusts the audience to read between the lines. The script doesn't always earn its emotional beats, but when it does, the payoff feels genuine. If you want a comedy about grown-ups behaving like complicated people without judgment, this is worth your time.